"Every generation blames the one before." — Mike + The Mechanics
So I guess "OK Boomer" is a thing now. And I gather I'm supposed to be offended by it. Certainly, some people seem to be.
The saying — a dismissive eye roll from Generation Z to their elders — is suddenly all the rage. It appears on hoodies, headlines, tweets and memes, this catch-all response to old folks' nonstop nagging and criticism. Some members of the Baby Boom generation are not amused.
Maureen Dowd of The New York Times sees it as "intergenerational war." Steve Cuozzo of The New York Post says the young ones "really, really hate us." Bob Lonsberry, a conservative radio host, declared "boomer" — no joke — "the n-word of ageism."
Granted, these are media types — not real people — so we should be careful about generalizing. I, for one, can't say I really feel "hate" from young folks. But to whatever degree I should be taking this seriously — "You darn kids, get off my internet!" — I find that I can't. I keep laughing instead.
It strikes me as funny that some in my generation, which defined itself by an insolent rejection of the old, are traumatized by a younger generation's insolent rejection of us. Am I the only one who remembers when the hippies warned, "Don't trust anyone over 30?" Does no one else recall when Pete Townshend sneered, "Hope I die before I get old"?
Then how dare any of us clutch our pearls over a little intergenerational sniping? Besides, it's not as if the kids don't have a point. Our record is certainly mixed.
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I'd say our music was better than theirs, but they have better television — and more of it — than we could've dreamt. Boomers made great strides in civil rights for black people, women and the LGBTQ. But we dropped the ball on climate change, failed to address a rigged financial system. And we — the white cohort of us at least — bear blame for the catastrophe of Trump. We deserve both credit and castigation. Every generation does — even the "Greatest."
When I was a kid, I used to tease this old man in the neighborhood for being an old man in the neighborhood. "Keep a'livin'," he'd always retort. And I did. And here I am, just turned 62 and wondering how the heck that happened. The Gen Z kids will too soon enough wonder the selfsame thing. The big wheel keeps on turning.
Usually that confers perspective and context, the soil from which wisdom grows. But you couldn't prove that by these overwrought responses to young people's taunts.
I'm remembering teenage battles with my mom as I write this. As it happens, I've got Nat King Cole playing in the background. He was mom's end-all and be-all. She didn't want to hear any noise from my room about P-Funk getting funked up, Papa being a rolling stone or midnight trains to Georgia. As far as she was concerned, music stopped when King Cole died. I got sick of hearing his name, scorned him on general principle.
But I remember one day mom deigned to listen to the Stylistics with me. Afterward, she sniffed that "Betcha By Golly Wow" was actually a pretty song to have such a silly title. It was a backhanded compliment, but I felt vindicated by it just the same. I doubt she needed my vindication — adults didn't need that from kids back then. Still, somewhere in the intervening decades, I decided Cole wasn't so bad either. I just had to learn how to hear him — and I did.
So the kids may "OK" this Boomer to their heart's content. Because as they will eventually discover, that old man in my neighborhood was right.
Keep a'livin' indeed.
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In an interview with Bill O'Reilly, Andy Rooney said, "I didn't mean to get old. It just happened. If you're lucky it will happen to you."
The parents of the boomers, The Greatest Generation, won WW2 and catapulted America into the richest and most powerful country in the history of the Earth.
After WW2 Europe was decimated. China and India were decades away from becoming developed countries. That opened the window for America's dominance. Approximately 1/3 of the world's wealth was in America post WW2.
The boomers were the beneficiaries of those events. One could call them the luckiest generation. Gen X nor Millennials nor Gen Z had or will have those advantages. And as the boomers exit the scene they are leaving behind a bunch of debt their kids, grandkids, and great grandkids will have to pay off. And undo a lot of the damage to the natural environment which will cost a fortune.
The boomers caught a lot of heat from their parents for not appreciating what they were given. So the criticism they get from younger generations quite frankly is largely valid.
Some truth in this comment, but a lot of important truth overlooked (ignored?). Boomers are responsible for the civil rights movement. Boomers fought and protested the Vietnam War. Boomers engaged in behaviors that ended the Cold War and brought about the collapse of the Soviet Union and communism.
Spot on Leonard Pitts. Great commentary.
I hadn't heard that expression before. Then just after reading this I ran into this:
https://edition.cnn.com/2019/11/06/asia/new-zealand-ok-boomer-trnd/index.html
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